Recently, I had the honor of speaking at the Northshore District Association's Nurse Excellence Awards—a beautiful evening dedicated to celebrating the nurses who exemplify the very best of our profession. This event occurred just after I returned from a week-long pilgrimage—a time of spiritual reflection that allowed me to pause, breathe, and rediscover what is most important in my life.
Left to Right: Deborah Ford, RN, President-Elect LNF, Nora Steele, RN, LSNA member and Lesley Tilley, DNP, President LSNA
During that week, away from the constant motion of daily responsibilities, I found myself reflecting deeply on my own "why." Why do I continue to treasure being a nurse? Why do I feel such a profound calling to advocate for our profession and the patients we serve?
When I spoke to the audience that evening, I shared a story from early in my career—one that has stayed with me for decades and continues to remind me of my purpose in nursing.
Years ago, when I was a young nurse in the surgical intensive care unit, I cared for a patient who had suffered a traumatic head injury. He was non-responsive, and each day, I would narrate every step of his care---explaining what I was doing, offering words of encouragement, and reminding him that he was not alone. I didn't know if he could hear me, but I believed then, as I still do now, that every patient deserves dignity, compassion, and respect, regardless of their condition.
Weeks later, after a long and difficult recovery, that same patient returned to the ICU—not as a patient, but as a visitor. He sought me out, and when we met, he told me something I will never forget: he remembered my voice. He remembered the encouragement, the gentle reassurances, and the calm presence I tried to offer when I wasn't sure anyone was listening. He said those words gave him the strength to fight harder during his recovery.
That moment changed me. It reminded me that the essence of nursing isn't found in procedures or technology, but in human connection. Our words, our touch, our compassion---they matter. Even when we think no one notices, they can become the very lifeline someone needs to keep going.
This experience is one of my "whys." It's what drives me to continue advocating for nurses and the profession that has given me so much. Nursing is not just a job—it is a calling rooted in empathy, service, and humanity.
As I looked around the room at the Northshore Nurse Excellence Awards, I saw that same calling reflected in the faces of every honoree. Each nurse recognized that evening carries their own "why"—their own story of compassion, resilience, and purpose. Their dedication inspires all of us to keep moving forward, to continue advocating for our profession, and to make a lasting difference in the lives of those we serve.
To all the nurses who were honored that evening—and to every nurse across our state—thank you. You remind us that even the smallest acts of care can leave a lasting legacy. May we each continue to find strength and inspiration in our "why," and in doing so, continue to elevate the heart and soul of nursing in Louisiana.
Yours in service,
Lesley Tilley DNP, RN, NE-BC