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Introducing Northern NJ HPNA Information Technology Support Adrian Allotey, End of Life Doula

Posted by Northern New Jersey HPNA on
Wayne, NJ
Northern New Jersey HPNA

Did you know that there is a Northern NJ HPNA Chapter that covers the whole state of NJ?

I made it my life’s mission to promote the aging years as a sacred, beautiful, honorable stage of life.  I became a hospice volunteer and an eldercare specialist, aging companion, and end-of-life doula, a person who assists in the dying process, much like a birth doula does with the birthing process.  Working with elderly clients has been life affirming so much that I left a career of 20+ years to do it full time.  

I serve as a non-medical, elderly professional who specializes  in physical, emotional and spiritual care. I  meet my clients on their terms, see them as whole, and build relationships with them and their loved ones.   My self-care regimen, personal growth and intuition allow me to mindfully hold space and provide comfort for elderly people and their family in a non-judgmental, loving manner. My motto “heart to heart” is evident in the services that I provide.  

Holding this space decreases the stress and fears family members face, when caring for their loved ones. I am there whether they are in need of respite relief, work long hours or live long distance. I can help. Through extensive training, I  provide support, education, and suggestions for comfort. I have a toolkit of available resources to ease the anxious person and their family members including virtual “elder cams,” essential oils, crystals, healing, mindfulness practices, etc.  I am often referred to as “angels”, “Godsends”, “extraordinary”, “beyond belief” and words of the like.

I am excited to serve the Northern New Jersey Chapter of HPNA in an IT capacity while keeping in mind its purpose, "to build an influential network of hospice and palliative care nurses and professionals in New Jersey to share tools, resources, and education focused on the provision of expert care of the seriously ill."


Adrian Allotey, End of Life Doula